Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Let's discuss the back door - shall we?

Okay many many years ago, I remember trying this with my ex-husband who had a HUMONGOUS cock. At that time I found it extremely pleasurable. But it only took one time when he put it in just a little too quickly and I swear I felt like I was going to DIE. After that I could never relax enough to do it. I was damaged :(. Years later and now being divorced and with my perfect love now I was much more open to trying it again. Needless to say we have been very successful. The thing that bothers me, and I don't know if it should bother me, or it's weird, I actually prefer anal sex over vaginal sex. I have more feeling in my ass I don't know what to do with it. My ass can take more than my pussy so we can do more things it's just so fucking good. Pressing down inside my ass gets right to my gspot so if I'm going to squirt that's when it's going to happen. Just this past weekend, my man had 3 fingers in my ass and his cock. Oh my god it's unbelievable the sensation. He twists his fingers around his cock spreading my ass whole wider while pushing down, it make me cum within seconds. It's like this uncontrollable reaction. So, please anybody reading this, I want your opinion on this.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Blessed with the best - 2009 should be rocking

I just have to look back at my incredible year of sex. My growth sexually has made me understand better why even from a young age I had deep routed sexual needs. I consider myself lucky because I have been able to tap into my inner most intimate desires and express it physically with someone who also has found himself. Even after 3 years I still get butterflies when his face is looking down on me and we look into each others eyes and feel that intense desire. Just today we were fucking in bed, missionary style which to me is the most intimate and truly "making love". I just kept looking him in the eyes, staring into them. I was so taken by his power. Looking down between my legs I could see his cock pulling all the way out and forcefully entering it's way back in, in such a powerful motion. I imagined what it would look like from behind seeing his beautiful ass pushing itself into me and the muscles tightening with every push. It made me so HOT just thinking about it. I was in complete bliss.

I think the simple things we notice about each other is why our sex is so good. For instance, he loves when I don't wear a bra and in fact gets annoyed if I do wear one when we are just hanging around the house. I know, it's a guy thing and I forget :). He says I have beautiful breasts, most especially create nipples. So, when I don't wear a bra, my nipples tend to get very erect and hard. He will either come up from behind me and slide his hands up my shirt and caress them at any moment or I will just be doing anything, turn to look at him and notice him staring at my breasts. Those two things are the types of situations that keeps me at a level sexually that is as satisfying as it is. For me, I love his hands. I can't explain why it's maybe the shape, I don't know. But, I will look at them sometimes, he could be doing handy work and I look at his hands and get those butterflies in my pussy. Such a simple thing and most take for granted or they just dont' really look or take time to look.

I think couples these days just need to step back a bit and observe. Reconnect, go over every inch of their partner's body. See how your body and mind reacts to that. Take a mental note and then every day that you are together, make a point of observing your partner and you will be setting up a foundation for a very hot encounter. Make that one of your new years resolutions.