Let's discuss the back door - shall we?

Okay many many years ago, I remember trying this with my ex-husband who had a HUMONGOUS cock. At that time I found it extremely pleasurable. But it only took one time when he put it in just a little too quickly and I swear I felt like I was going to DIE. After that I could never relax enough to do it. I was damaged :(. Years later and now being divorced and with my perfect love now I was much more open to trying it again. Needless to say we have been very successful. The thing that bothers me, and I don't know if it should bother me, or it's weird, I actually prefer anal sex over vaginal sex. I have more feeling in my ass I don't know what to do with it. My ass can take more than my pussy so we can do more things it's just so fucking good. Pressing down inside my ass gets right to my gspot so if I'm going to squirt that's when it's going to happen. Just this past weekend, my man had 3 fingers in my ass and his cock. Oh my god it's unbelievable the sensation. He twists his fingers around his cock spreading my ass whole wider while pushing down, it make me cum within seconds. It's like this uncontrollable reaction. So, please anybody reading this, I want your opinion on this.

Blessed with the best - 2009 should be rocking

I just have to look back at my incredible year of sex. My growth sexually has made me understand better why even from a young age I had deep routed sexual needs. I consider myself lucky because I have been able to tap into my inner most intimate desires and express it physically with someone who also has found himself. Even after 3 years I still get butterflies when his face is looking down on me and we look into each others eyes and feel that intense desire. Just today we were fucking in bed, missionary style which to me is the most intimate and truly "making love". I just kept looking him in the eyes, staring into them. I was so taken by his power. Looking down between my legs I could see his cock pulling all the way out and forcefully entering it's way back in, in such a powerful motion. I imagined what it would look like from behind seeing his beautiful ass pushing itself into me and the muscles tightening with every push. It made me so HOT just thinking about it. I was in complete bliss.

I think the simple things we notice about each other is why our sex is so good. For instance, he loves when I don't wear a bra and in fact gets annoyed if I do wear one when we are just hanging around the house. I know, it's a guy thing and I forget :). He says I have beautiful breasts, most especially create nipples. So, when I don't wear a bra, my nipples tend to get very erect and hard. He will either come up from behind me and slide his hands up my shirt and caress them at any moment or I will just be doing anything, turn to look at him and notice him staring at my breasts. Those two things are the types of situations that keeps me at a level sexually that is as satisfying as it is. For me, I love his hands. I can't explain why it's maybe the shape, I don't know. But, I will look at them sometimes, he could be doing handy work and I look at his hands and get those butterflies in my pussy. Such a simple thing and most take for granted or they just dont' really look or take time to look.

I think couples these days just need to step back a bit and observe. Reconnect, go over every inch of their partner's body. See how your body and mind reacts to that. Take a mental note and then every day that you are together, make a point of observing your partner and you will be setting up a foundation for a very hot encounter. Make that one of your new years resolutions.

Spooning - The Tell Tell Truth

I happened to stumble upon Oprah's show the other day and she was interviewing that actress, totally forget her name, she was in the Lord of the Rings as that Ice Princess type character and played Elizabeth? She's hot by the way. Anyhoo, she was asked a question about how she knew her husband was "the one". She answered, she said "It's all in how well you spoon when you are in bed together". You know I have to agree with her. My ex and I never spooned well as I look back. My sex god and I talked about it last night, as we were spooning, and he asked me, "hey did we always sleep like this"? I think we have, I told him. When spooning is at it's perfect match it's the most comfortable, comforting and secure position any two people can share.

Monday - Back to work

So, my sex god and I did finally go to sleep last night. But usually right before we go to sleep he inevitably asks me to suck his cock, "just for a little bit" sort of a good night kiss of course :). A lot of the time it's just that, maybe to relax and fall into a nice pleasant sleep. But, IT reacted and that just makes me hot for him again. My body definately had enough but my mind took over as it usually does. So, he asked me to 69 him, which I gladly did. It felt great, nice soft tongue on an area which had been completely worn throughout the weekend. Though it felt great I was so numb it just wasn't going to get me to cum. Not that I felt like I had too but it's just so great to cum right before going to sleep. So, after a few minutes I climbed off of him and told him that I wanted to get myself off quickly. He smiled and asked if I could sit over his face and rub myself on him as I masturbate. Hmmmm, that was a really nice idea and definately got my into a mode. I started masturbating, quickly with my two fingers, the Jack be Quick of masterbation scenes, LOL. I came one last time rubbed my pussy all over his face and gave him a big wet kiss good night!

Pocket Rocket - I know my toys, trust me

This is by far the best personal vibrator for women. It's approximately 3 inches in length and is probably has the strongest vibrations of any vibrator I have ever used. It's the design that works so well. It has three metal ball like features at the top which slide so smoothly in and around the clit. The strength of the vibrator makes the vibrations travel pretty deep so a lot of the time I don't have to have it vibrating directly on my clit to get off. A must have and the BEST gift you can get ANY woman.

Sundays - A fucking good weekend - Shit ,back to work

Every Sunday it's like this. We have the best fucking weekend, literally, and then Sunday rolls around and I get a little depressed. We spent, hmmm, let me think, pretty much most of Saturday night fucking and then pretty much all of today fucking. It's out of control, we just can't get enough. He could be fucking me in the ass all day long and we are both exhausted and then just brush by each other in the kitchen and then "boom" I'm on my knees wanted to blow him again or I could be doing the dishes and all of the sudden he lifts up my robe and starts fucking me from behind. We've been together for almost 3 years now so this isn't new, actually it's gotten better and better over time. So, I'm writing now, we are taking a break, but I can bet you a billion dollars I'll just have to suck his cock one more time or at least have one more orgasm before this weekend is officially over.